Communication skills in a relationship

Have any of you ever had a partner who just by looking at you already knows everything you want and satisfies them all the time perfectly? Yeah, well, neither have I.

In a relationship, communication is something fundamental. Yes, I know there is a belief that women always expect their partners to read our minds, but men are just the same.

In fact, in a couple, the one who communicates the most is the woman, and the one who hears the least is the man. If you don't believe me, try to remember the last thing your beloved wife or girlfriend said to you. Now ask her the same question. You see I'm not lying to you?

Jokes aside, learning to clearly express what you want or need helps build a much healthier and more enjoyable relationship.

As far as I know, people are not mind readers. The idea that we do is something that can cause many problems and conflicts, and one of the times when this is most likely to occur is when we are trying to have a satisfying sexual experience with our partner.

In order to achieve efficient communication, many details must be taken into account, even more so when what you are going to talk about is sex.

Let's be clear, talking about sex is not something that is easy for some (or many) people. Telling your partner about the things you like or want, about how I feel, or about sensitive things that might upset your partner, can be a complicated task.

One of the first things to avoid is getting defensive because the moment you do that, the communication is over. And then come those situations that lead you to keep quiet, or feel embarrassed, or maybe even resentful. In short, you stop trying.

Also look for the right time and place to have the conversation. You're not going to seek to talk about your sexual problems at someone's funeral, for example.

The other important aspect is to maintain a frame of mind that will help propel your conversation forward. Demonstrating your desire to improve the relationship by using loving language and offering constructive feedback also go a long way toward success.

Taking the time to talk is important. A healthy relationship should allow you to share your feelings, fears, dreams and hopes. So always look for ways to find time to talk to your partner more often.

 

What a woman wants after making love

You will probably agree with me that, with or without tights, having sex is one of the most wonderful and pleasurable things in life. And it should be just as pleasurable or even more pleasurable after sex.

 

It seems that most men think that when they reach ejaculation, the show is over. Kind of like parking a car: you stop it, turn it off, get out and go about your business.

That definitely doesn't work the same with women.

Women, unlike men, conserve much more energy, maintain their arousal, and therefore feel like doing many more things.

So if you want the sex to be truly memorable, make sure you work a little harder on the after-sales service. Read on for some suggestions.

Although many believe that the act is over, many of us don't feel the same way and would like to enjoy the moment and the company, say things to each other or not say anything at all, it doesn't matter. What we want is to feel each other's company. You never know if this will lead to a second round.

The best way to continue the game are kisses and caresses after sex, and they are also the best way to open the possibilities to have more sex, which is what we really want.

And if this happens, take it easy, it won't just be about having sex, it will be about making love. 

If you want to tell me about my freckles, ask me about them, you can even kiss them if you wish. Just the thought of you being interested in my body would arouse all kinds of emotions. And if you tell me a little more about yourself and make me feel that you trust me, that would be totally captivating.

And if we just lay there without saying anything, just sharing the moment, that's okay too. That way I will know that I can always feel good by your side during silences or uncomfortable moments.

And in case you haven't understood the above, what we want to feel is that you don't want to be anywhere else in the world, at any other time, but there, with us.